Uma iGrinch intshontsha uKhisimusi, lo bhubhane usivimbela ekugubheni ngokugcwele amaholide asebusika asele. Kuvela ukuthi lesi esinye isikhathi sokulinda. Ngokwezincomo zakamuva zikahulumeni, ukuhamba ngamaholide akukhuthazwa, futhi imibuthano yedijithali ibonakala iyindlela ehlakaniphile kakhulu yokuxhumana nabangani nomndeni.
Uma ufuna ukusingatha ukusebenza kwakho kokusakaza, sicela ukhumbule okuthile okufanele ukunake. Njengoba izincwadi ze-Emily Posts zingahlanganisi imicimbi ebonakalayo, sixhumane nabesifazane abane futhi sabanikeza izindlela ezinhle kakhulu zama-cocktail party edijithali, ama-jam sessions kanye nokunambitha iwayini. I-chin, phansi phezulu, bese uqhubeka nokufunda.
Njengomklami wemicimbi, waziwa ngendlela yakhe "yokuphindeka kabili umzamo". Sekuyisikhathi eside, uGardner ehlinzeka ngezinsiza kubabungazi bemicimbi abafuna ukudala ubusuku obungenakulibaleka. Ifilosofi yakhe ihlanganisa amaphethini ngamaphethini, izimbali ezingapheli kanye nokudlala. Kuleli hlobo, wavula isitolo sakhe sendlu kanye nesephathi online, lapho ungathola khona zonke izinto azithandayo - imigqa yesiPutukezi, izingilazi zeMurano kanye namagajethi ezigqoko zephepha ukuze ujabule kakhulu. Nazi izindlela ezinhle kakhulu zikaGardner.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle ukuthi ukuqoqa abantu emhlabeni wonke bacabanga ngezindlela zokuqhubeka nesiko lamaholide. Kodwa-ke, ngiyesaba isimemo sokubamba iqhaza emicimbini ebonakalayo. Kunezinkinga zobuchwepheshe, bese ngihlala phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutha ukuze ngidle futhi ngizizwe nginovalo. Ngincoma ukuthi le mibuthano ebonakalayo ibe mfushane futhi imnandi, kodwa nayo iyakhumbuleka ngokulinganayo. Kungani ungahlanganyeli nabangani nomndeni emibuthanweni ye-toast yangaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa kanye nemicimbi yokulala?
Hlela imenyu ekhethekile, khuthaza ukupheka kweqembu, bese uhlela izingcingo ezimbili ze-Zoom ngesikhathi esibekiwe ngaphambi nangemva kwesidlo sakusihlwa. Zihlele cishe imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa kanye nakusihlwa kamuva ukuze ungaphazamisi ukudla kwakho.
I-Paperless Post inesigaba sonke samaphathi abonakalayo. Ungafaka isixhumanisi "sokusondeza" embhalweni. Ngithanda izinketho ezisesithombeni se-Happy Menocal (wenza namakhadi emenyu amahle esitolo sami).
Sekuphele izinyanga sibheke endaweni efanayo futhi ukuhlobisa amatafula kuyindlela enhle yokudala indawo yemikhosi. Oda izimbali! Nciphisa izibani! Gqoka kahle! Lengisa isibani! Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iqembu lincane kangakanani, ungavumeli lutho lonakalise ukulungiswa kwetafula lakho. Ungabonisa imihlobiso yakho ngesikhathi socingo lwe-Zoom, kodwa sicela ungasebenzisi "isizinda se-photogenic" ngaphandle kokuthi sibi kakhulu futhi sihlasimulisa umzimba.
Ngingumfundi kaPriya Parker (wabhala “Ubuciko Bokuhlangana: Indlela Esihlangana Ngayo Nesizathu Sokuba Kubalulekile”). Umphathi kufanele ahlale eqaphela umcimbi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi unjani. Lena yindlela yokwenza umsebenzi ube nenjongo.
Kulo nyaka, isihluthulelo ukuhlela kusenesikhathi nokwenza imizamo, ngoba izingcingo ze-Zoom zisetshenziselwa imihlangano yebhizinisi. Gqoka isigqoko sasendle, izinkondlo zothando ezikhangayo, noma uvumele izingane zicule izingoma ezihlekisayo. Noma yikuphi ukwengeza ama-pancake. Ukuthumela amaski nezigqoko zephathi ezihlekisayo, noma lawa makhukhi ephathi, anezinto zokuhloba ezigqokwayo, kanye nomdlalo ojabulisayo wegumbi lokuphumula onjengokuthi “Zenza sengathi uncibilikisa iqhwa”, kumnandi ngempela. Vele, izihlobo zakho zingakwenza lokhu ngenjabulo.
Ukuya esidlweni sakusihlwa sika-Aeron Lauder kuwukufunda ubuciko bokuziphatha. Umklami owazuza umbono kagogo wakhe wokuklama kanye nesitayela somphakathi wabelane ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe encwadini entsha ethi “Rizzoli”. Uthe ukuzijabulisa kufanele kube lula futhi kujabulise, noma ngabe kuyikhofi kubantu ababili abalele embhedeni noma ukujabulisa amalungu omndeni aseduze esidlweni sakusihlwa. Imikhuba emihle kaLauder yilena elandelayo.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubamba umcimbi obonakalayo ukugcina ubumfihlo kanye nobumfihlo. Uma sifunda noma yini phakathi nalesi sikhathi, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kubalulekile ukunaka imininingwane. Ngithanda ukuphuza itiye ntambama nabangani nomndeni. Lena yindlela enhle yokuqeda usuku.
Angikwazi ukuqamba amanga, angikabi umuntu ongcono kakhulu ukusebenzisa i-Zoom, amadodana ami kungase kudingeke angisize ukuhlela lo mcimbi. Kodwa manje kuzwakala njengendawo enhle yokuxhumana, ukuhlangana nokudala izinkumbulo ezintsha.
Ngetiye lantambama, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usethe kusengaphambili konke ongakudinga—isethi yakho yetiye, ushukela nobisi. Bengilokhu ngisebenzisa uchungechunge lwami lwetiye i-Ginori 1735 Granduca muva nje. Ngihlala nginevase encane egcwele izimbali kanye nesitsha esigcwele ushokoledi oxubile we-edelweiss. Bengilokhu ngisebenzisa ivase yethu entsha ye-Lattea kuyo yonke inqubo yokuvalelwa ngoba yenziwe ngengilazi futhi ibukeka kahle kunoma iyiphi indawo. Bese, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ubilise amanzi ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi uqale ukuze ukwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele isikhathi nezivakashi zakho. Ungaxhumana nabo kusengaphambili, ukuze kungabikho muntu ekhishini ngesikhathi socingo.
Ngingumuntu othanda kakhulu izimemo kuma-imeyili, kodwa ngemicimbi ebonakalayo, izimemo zedijithali zibonakala zifaneleka kakhulu. Ngithanda ukudala izimemo zedijithali ezenziwe ngokwezifiso ukuze ngenze abantu bajabule ngalo mcimbi. Ngithanda ukusebenza nabadwebi bezithombe zamanzi ezifana ne-Happy Menocal, i-Kinshippress kanye ne-Clementina sketchbooks ukuze ngenze izivakashi zizizwe zenziwe ngezandla futhi zikhethekile.
Ngisajwayele ukwenza izinto eziku-inthanethi nokufunda imikhuba emihle kakhulu, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ukuba nesizinda esifudumele nesikhangayo yikona okunethonya kakhulu. Noma nini lapho nginezivakashi ekhaya, ngifuna zizizwe zikhululekile futhi zijabulele. Ngakho-ke, ngihlose ukudala indawo ebonakalayo ehambisana nalo mqondo. Uma ubamba iphathi yetiye, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usondeza isithombe usuka egumbini lokuphumula noma ekhishini. Beka i-laptop etafuleni eliseceleni, ungabeka namasethi etiye kuyo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, ukugcina isikhathi kukhuthazwa njalo. Sinezinto eziningi okufanele sizenze ekhaya, ngakho-ke siyabonga nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ongaya ngaso.
Noma nini lapho ngizijabulisa, izingxoxo ezithakazelisayo nezithakazelisayo zibalulekile ukuze uchithe ubusuku obuhle, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuvumela wonke umuntu akhulume. Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezenza ngizizwe nginamandla ngokubamba imicimbi emincane neyothando kangaka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukwakha ukuxhumana okuqondile nezivakashi zakho nokuzenza zizizwe zihlukile. Ngihlala ngithanda ukuletha izindaba zomuntu siqu nezinkumbulo emisebenzini yami ukuze ngenze izivakashi zizizwe zisekhaya. Ufuna futhi izivakashi zakho zikwazi ukuxhumana nabanye.
Ngihlala ngithi njengombungazi, ukuphumula nokuzijabulisa kubalulekile, ngoba izivakashi zizolandela isibonelo sakho. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusasebenza.
Ngivame ukubhukha imizuzu engama-45 ngalokhu, kodwa noma kunjalo, kuzophela ngokwemvelo. Ngokwami, izivakashi zivame ukufunda emikhondweni enyamalalayo.
Ngihlala ngithanda ukushiya isipho esincane endaweni yokudlela yawo wonke umuntu. Yilokhu engikufundile kugogo wami u-Estee Lauder. Ukuze ngiqhubeke nalesi siko, kungaba ngumqondo othakazelisayo ukuthumela isipho esincane kubo bonke abavakashi, kungaba ukukhanyisa amakhandlela ngesikhathi somcimbi, izitsha zebha zokubenzela iziphuzo, noma ngisho ne-napkin ye-monogram. I-AERIN isanda kubambisana ne-Social Studies, enikeza izidingo zokubeka wonke amatafula amahle emnyango wakho. Ngithanda umbono wokuthi isivakashi ngasinye samukela amapuleti afanayo, ama-napkin, izibuko, njll. ukuze kudalwe isipiliyoni esivumelana kakhulu.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, njengomphathi wezinhlelo, kufanele ukugcine kulula futhi kujabulise. Abasingathi bavame ukulwela ukuphelela, okungelula ukuheha ukunaka kwabantu. Eminye yemisebenzi emihle kakhulu engike ngaya kuyo ayihlelekile futhi ilula. U-Estee Lauder wayehlala ethi: “Uma nje kuthatha isikhathi, konke kuzoba kuhle.” Lesi sisho sisafaneleka ezweni lanamuhla elibonakalayo.
Njengomsunguli we-Virtual With Us, u-Alex Schrecengost wahlela izinhlelo ezigxile ewayinini ukuze ozakwabo bebhizinisi nabangane bazijabulele ndawonye. Amakhasimende akhe asukela ezinkampanini ze-Fortune 500 kuya ezinhlanganweni ezinkulu ezingenzi nzuzo ezibamba amaphathi akusihlwa. Zonke izivakashi zakhe zizothola iwayini elibhodleleni kanye newayini elifanayo ngaphambi komcimbi, bese zingena ukuze nixoxe ubusuku obumnandi futhi nithole ithuba lokufunda ngewayini abaliphuzayo. Nazi izindlela ezinhle kakhulu ze-Schrecengost.
Sisebenzisa i-Zoom. Kulula ukuyisebenzisa futhi ilula kakhulu kulabo abangayazi. Okudingayo nje i-laptop (noma ngisho neselula) kanye nomthombo omuhle wokukhanya ukuze ukwazi ukubona ubuso obuhle bawo wonke umuntu.
Ungathumela uhlu lokuthenga ukuze uthole amawayini okulula ukuwathola, noma elingcono, sicela usisebenzise! Sakha uhlu lwawo wonke amawayini, ubhiya, utshwala kanye neziphuzo (ikhofi/itiye) ngaphakathi. Ngisebenzisana eduze nabasabalalisi, abangenisi kanye nabalingani bezitolo ezweni lonke ukuthola imikhiqizo eyingqayizivele, futhi ngithanda ukuyithumela kuwe.
Sikhuthaza ukubiza ama-sommelier. Sifuna izivakashi zethu zizizwe zikhululekile ngewayini futhi zifunde endaweni ekhangayo, eyomile noma ehlulelayo. Uma ubamba iphathi yewayini ekhaya futhi ungakwazi ukuthola izinsizakalo ze-sommelier, ungathatha indima ye-sommelier ufunde umlando we-cocktail ethile oyiphuzayo, noma uhlanganyele encazelweni ye-master sommelier yokunambitha iwayini.
Amaqiniso afakazele ukuthi ihora elilodwa yisikhathi esingcono kakhulu, yize uma wonke umuntu enesikhathi esikhethekile, azohlala isikhathi eside, ngokuqinisekile siyakukhuthaza lokhu.
Into engcono kakhulu ngewayini ukuthi lihlanganisa abantu kalula kangakanani. Kulula kakhulu ukuhlanganisa iwayini nengxoxo, ngakho-ke sikhuluma ngokudla kanye namasiko athandwayo ukuze wonke umuntu abe bushelelezi futhi abe mnandi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu bathanda izindaba ezinhle kanye nezindaba mayelana newayini abaliphuzayo, ngakho babelane ngemibono ethile mayelana newayini noma umndeni ongumnikazi wewayini.
Njengoba nje uya kunoma yiliphi iphathi, sicela ulinganise isimo sengqondo sawo wonke umuntu bese uzama ukwenza wonke umuntu avule ikhamera. Lokhu kushintsha isimo somhlangano wonke futhi kusiza ukwenza wonke umuntu asebenzisane. Hlela umhlangano ojabulisayo wokuphula iqhwa ukuze ugcwalise wonke umuntu ngesimo senjabulo, njengokuthi: yiziphi izinto abantu abazithanda kakhulu ngesikhathi se-COVID, noma iphrojekthi abaziqhenya ngayo kakhulu, noma ngabe imatasa isebenza futhi ifunda. Futhi, hleka! Uma ungabaza, sicela ukwenze kube mnandi. Uma wonke umuntu ekwazi ukuhleka ndawonye, ​​​​khona-ke wonke umuntu uzoba nesikhathi esimnandi.
Ngokungafani namatafula okudlela, sinomqondo wokwazi ukuthi ukuphela kuzophela nini. Kumayelana nokuzwa igumbi lakho elibonakalayo nokubona ukuthi abantu basaxoxa futhi baxhumana yini, noma ukuthi babukeka bekhathele yini.
Ungasikisela nakanjani ukuthi izivakashi zakho zibe noshokoledi noshizi bese zidla phakathi. Ingilazi yewayini efanelana kahle ihlala imnandi kakhulu.
Njengomsunguli weClub Club Global, uSolano ubamba imicimbi yamasonto onke epulatifomu yokusakaza bukhoma iTwitch. Umbukiso wakhe ubonise amakhono ahlukahlukene, okuhlanganisa ukuphotha ama-DJ, ukusebenza kwabaculi, ukufunda izimbongi, kanye nobuciko bamavidiyo. I-Club House Global yazalelwa ebhubhaneni ukuze isekele indlela ama-DJ nabaculi abangakwazi ukuxhumana ngayo nezilaleli ngendlela yendabuko. I-Club House Global iyiklabhu eyamukela wonke umuntu. Imikhuba emihle kaSolano yilena elandelayo:
Okuhle kakhulu! Okujabulisayo ngakho konke lokhu ukuthi ukusakaza kungalungiswa ngokukhululeka noma ngokupheleliswa ngendlela othanda ngayo, ngobubanzi obukhulu!
Ungasebenzisa amapulatifomu amaningi ukusakaza bukhoma. I-Twitch inhle kakhulu ngenxa yekhono layo lokuvumela ukusebenzisana ngesikhathi sangempela, ukwenza uhlelo lwakho lube ngokoqobo, nokukukhombisa umphakathi omkhulu osuvele ukhona ekusakazweni bukhoma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma ukhululekile kakhulu kungcono! Indawo yonke ye-Twitch ikhuthaza ukuziphatha okuseduze, okungahleliwe. Lokhu kusisiza ukuthi sidonsele izithameli futhi senze iphathi ikhange kubo.
Kuzinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi zokusakaza bukhoma, uzodinga i-WiFi enhle kanye nedivayisi exhunywe ngekhamera. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi isinyathelo esilandelayo silula njengokucindezela inkinobho ethi "bukhoma". Kodwa-ke, kuye ngobukhulu bohlelo, kungaba nzima kakhulu. Uma unguDJ noma umsingathi, uvame ukudinga isikhombikubona somsindo, njenge-GoMixer noma i-iRig. Futhi kungcono ukufaka nokufunda i-OBS (Isofthiwe Yokusakaza Evulekile). Uma ufuna ukuthola ubuchwepheshe obukhulu, njengoba sise-Club House Global, uzodinga abaguquli bezobuchwepheshe njengomsunguli wami uPatrick Struys. Uma unengxoxo ebukhoma (kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ku-Twitch, IG Live, Facebook noma Youtube Live), ungadinga umlawuli ongaqinisekisa ukuthi ingxoxo ihlala isebenza futhi ifanelekile. Umlingani wami wesithathu kanye nomkhiqizi omkhulu u-Anjali Ramasunder kwa-CHG unguchwepheshe kule ndawo. Sonke sigqoka izigqoko eziningi, ngoba indawo yokusakaza bukhoma isentshonalanga yasendle, udinga zonke izandla zakho edekini.
Ungathatha imikhuba eminingi efanayo ye-IRL uma uhlela ukukhuthaza ukugeleza kolwazi lwakho. Dala amapheshana, thumela ulwazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, bese uthumela ulwazi ngezincwadi zezindaba, izingxoxo zombhalo, njll. Uma unquma ukuthi ufuna ukusakazwa kwevidiyo kuqale nini, cabanga ngendawo yesikhathi yezilaleli nokuthi kwenzeka nini okunye ukusakazwa bukhoma. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukwengeza isixhumanisi esiqondile ekusakazweni kwakho!
Izilinganiso zokusakaza bukhoma ziyashintshashintsha futhi azibikezeleki. Lokhu kuyinto okumele uyijwayele. Akusebenzi njengomcimbi we-IRL. Abantu bazovela ngokuzumayo bese bebuyela ekusakazweni kwakho. Ezinye izinqubo zihlala amahora amabili, ezinye zihlala amahora angama-24. Kuncike kumkhawulokudonsa wakho kanye nemigomo yokusakaza. Isibonelo, ufuna ukuqoqa imali? Noma umane uchithe isikhathi nabangani? Ingabe unaboDJ/abaculi abayi-10 abalungiselela ukwenza eyodwa njalo ngehora, noma nibabili? Ngezinye izikhathi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokunquma ukuthi ubani ofanele wena ukuyihlola!
Uma usunabalaleli, kungaba segumbini lakho lokuhlangana le-Zoom noma epulatifomu yomphakathi, ufuna ngempela ukwamukela wonke umuntu. Yazisa izilaleli ukuthi zilungisani, futhi uzinike imephu yohlelo. Khumbula, abantu bazovela ngezikhathi ezahlukene, futhi kungcono ukukuvuma lokho.
Uma othile ekumakrofoni, izilaleli ezibukhoma zisabela kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma ukhuluma ngqo engxoxweni, uphendula imibuzo, uphawula ngomculo odlalwayo, njll. Cabanga ngakho njenge-podcast ebukhoma. Umphathi omuhle uzokwenza uzizwe sengathi ungabantu ababili nje egumbini. Abalaleli bazothuliswa, ngakho-ke iningi lokuxhumana lizoba engxoxweni. Vula ukuphawula futhi ungawanaki noma yikuphi ukugcona.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqinisekisa ukuthi izilaleli zakho zijabule ukuqinisekisa ukuthi ujabule. Amandla ayathelelana, futhi manje usungumkhuzi we-resonance. Ngeke ukwazi ukubona izilaleli zakho, ngakho-ke ungahlala ubuza ukuthi ingxoxo iyathandeka yini. Uma izilaleli sezixhumene nawe ngempela, zizophenduka abalandeli. Ngakho-ke hlala uxhumene nawe!
Ngokuvamile, ngaphambi kokusakaza bukhoma, kufanele ube nesimiso esinzima sesikhathi sokusakaza bukhoma. Ikakhulukazi uma ufuna ukukhuthaza uhlelo kusenesikhathi. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uhlela ukusakaza njalo imidiya ukuze wakhe izithameli eziku-inthanethi, ufuna ukusakaza imidiya ngesikhathi esifanayo nangehora kanye ngesonto.
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