Uma i-Grinch intshontsha uKhisimusi, lo bhubhane usivimbela ukuthi sigubhe amaholide asebusika ngokugcwele. Kuvele ukuthi lesi ngesinye isikhathi sokulinda. Ngokwezincomo zakamuva zikahulumeni, ukuhamba eholidini akukhuthazwa, futhi imibuthano yedijithali ibonakala iyindlela ehlakaniphe kakhulu yokuxhumana nabangane nomndeni.
Uma ufuna ukusingatha ukusebenza kokusakaza kwakho siqu, sicela uhlale ukhumbula okuthile okufanele ukunake. Futhi njengoba izincwadi ze-Emily Posts zingayifaki imicimbi ebonakalayo, sithinte abasikazi abane futhi sabanikeza izindlela ezingcono kakhulu zamaphathi e-digital cocktail, izikhathi ze-jam kanye nokunambitha iwayini. Chin, phansi phezulu, bese uqhubeke ufunda.
Njengomklami womcimbi, waziwa ngendlela yakhe “yokuphinda umzamo”. Isikhathi eside, u-Gardner unikeze izinsiza kubasingathi beqembu abafuna ukudala ubusuku obungenakulibaleka. Ifilosofi yakhe ihlanganisa amaphethini emaphethini, izimbali ezingapheli kanye nokudlala. Kulekwindla, wavula eyakhe indlu kanye nesitolo se-inthanethi sephathi, lapho ungathola khona zonke izinto azithandayo-imigqa yesiPutukezi, i-Murano glassware kanye namagajethi ezigqoko zephepha ukuze uthole injabulo eyengeziwe. Nansi imikhuba ehamba phambili ka-Gardner.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle ukuthi ukuqoqa abantu emhlabeni wonke bacabange ngezindlela zokuqhubeka nesiko lamaholide. Nokho, ngiyasesaba isimemo sokubamba iqhaza emicimbini ebonakalayo. Kukhona ubunzima bezobuchwepheshe, bese uhlala phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutha ukuze udle futhi uzwe ukwesaba. Ngincoma ukuthi ugcine le mibuthano emifushane futhi imnandi, kodwa ayikhumbuleki ngokufanayo. Kungani ungajoyini abangani nomndeni ukuze uthole ithosti yangaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa namakholi wephathi ngaphambi kokulala?
Hlela imenyu ekhethekile, khuthaza ukupheka kweqembu, bese uhlela izingcingo ezimbili ze-Zoom ngesikhathi esimisiwe ngaphambi nangemva kwesidlo sakusihlwa. Wahlele cishe imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa futhi kamuva kusihlwa ukuze ungaphazamisi ukudla kwakho.
I-Paperless Post inesigaba sonke samaqembu abonakalayo. Ungafaka isixhumanisi "sondeza" embhalweni. Ngiyazithanda izinketho ezisemfanekisweni we-Happy Menocal (futhi wenze amakhadi emenyu amahle esitolo sami).
Sibheke endaweni efanayo izinyanga futhi amatafula okuhlobisa kuyindlela enhle yokudala indawo yemikhosi. Oda izimbali! Fiphalisa izibani! swenka! Lengisa isibani! Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iqembu lincane kangakanani, ungavumeli noma yini yonakalise ukulungiselelwa kwetafula lakho. Ungakhombisa imihlobiso yakho phakathi nekholi ye-Zoom, kodwa sicela ungasebenzisi "ingemuva lesithombe" ngaphandle uma likhulu kakhulu futhi liyahlanya.
Ngingumfundi kaPriya Parker (wabhala “Ubuciko Bokuhlangana: Indlela Esihlangana Ngayo nokuthi Kungani Kubalulekile”). Umsingathi kufanele ahlale eqaphela umcimbi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ifomethi. Lena indlela yokwenza umsebenzi ube nenjongo.
Kulo nyaka, ukhiye ukuhlela kusenesikhathi futhi wenze imizamo, ngoba izingcingo ze-Zoom zisetshenziselwa imihlangano yebhizinisi. Gqoka isigqoko sasendle, izinkondlo zothando ezihehayo, noma uvumele izingane zicule izingoma ezihlekisayo. Noma yimuphi engeza ama-pancake. Ukuthumela imaski nezigqoko zephathi, noma lawa makhukhi ephathi, anobucwebe bemvunulo kuwo, kanye nomdlalo wegumbi lokuhlala ojabulisayo njengokuthi “Zenza sengathi uncibilikisa indoda yeqhwa”, kumnandi ngempela. Yiqiniso, izihlobo zakho zingakwenza lokhu ngokujabula.
Ukuya esidlweni sakusihlwa se-Aeron Lauder ukufunda ubuciko bokuziphatha. Umklami owazuza njengefa umbono kagogo wakhe wokuklama nesitayela somphakathi wabelane ngobuhlakani bakhe encwadini entsha ethi “Rizzoli”. Uthe ukuzijabulisa kufanele kube lula futhi kube mnandi, ngisho noma kuyikhofi labantu ababili abalele embhedeni noma ukujabulisa amalungu omndeni aseduze esidlweni sakusihlwa. Imikhuba emihle kaLauder imi kanje.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubamba umcimbi we-virtual ukugcina ubumfihlo nobumfihlo. Uma sifunda okuthile ngalesi sikhathi, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu ukubaluleka kokunaka imininingwane. Ngithanda ukuphuza itiye lantambama nabangane nomndeni. Lena indlela enhle yokuqeda usuku.
Ngeke ngiqambe amanga, angiyena umuntu ongcono kakhulu ukusebenzisa iZoom, kungase kudingeke amadodana ami angisize ukuhlela lo mcimbi. Kodwa manje kuzwakala njengendawo enhle yokuxhumana, ukuhlangana futhi udale izinkumbulo ezintsha.
Ngetiye lantambama, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usethe kusengaphambili konke ongase ukudinge-isethi yakho yetiye, ushukela nobisi. Bengisebenzisa uchungechunge lwetiye lami le-Ginori 1735 Granduca muva nje. Ngihlale nginevazi encane egcwele izimbali kanye nesitsha esigcwele ushokoledi oxubile we-edelweiss. Bengilokhu ngisebenzisa ivazi yethu entsha ye-Lattea phakathi nenqubo yokuvalelwa yedwa ngoba yenziwe ngengilazi futhi ibukeka iyinhle kunoma iyiphi indawo. Khona-ke, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ubilise amanzi ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi uqale ukuze ujabulele ngokugcwele isikhathi nezivakashi zakho. Ungakwazi ukuxhumana nabo kusenesikhathi, ukuze kungabikho muntu ekhishini ngesikhathi socingo.
Ngiyisidala kakhulu futhi ngihlala ngithanda izimemo kuma-imeyili, kodwa emicimbini ebonakalayo, izimemo zedijithali zibonakala zifaneleka kakhulu. Ngithanda ukudala izimemo zedijithali zangokwezifiso ukuze ngenze abantu bajabule ngomcimbi. Ngithanda ukusebenza nabadwebi be-watercolor abafana ne-Happy Menocal, Kinshippress kanye ne-Clementina sketchbooks ukuze ngenze izihambeli zizwe umsebenzi wezandla futhi zikhethekile.
Ngisajwayele ukwenza izinto ezibonakalayo nokufunda imikhuba engcono kakhulu, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ukuba nesizinda esifudumele nesikhangayo yikhona okunomthelela omkhulu. Noma nini lapho nginezivakashi ekhaya, ngifuna zikhululeke futhi zijabulele. Ngakho-ke, ngihlose ukudala indawo ebonakalayo ehambisana nalo mqondo. Uma ubamba iphathi yetiye, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usondeze usuka egumbini lokuphumula noma ekhishini. Beka ilaptop phezu kwetafula eliseceleni, ungafaka namasethi etiye kuyo.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani, ukugcina isikhathi kukhuthazwa njalo. Kuningi okumele sikwenze ekhaya, ngakho-ke siyabonga nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ongaya ngaso.
Noma nini lapho nginemidlalo yokuzijabulisa, izingxoxo ezithakazelisayo nezithakazelisayo zibalulekile ukuze sichithe ubusuku obumnandi, ngakho kubalulekile ukuvumela wonke umuntu akhulume. Lesi ngesinye sezizathu ezenza ngizizwe ngiqinile ngokubamba imicimbi emincane nesondelene kangaka. Ngicabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukusungula ukuxhumana okuqondile nezivakashi zakho futhi uzenze zizizwe zihlukile. Ngiphinde ngithanda ukuletha izindaba zomuntu siqu nezinkumbulo emisebenzini yami ukuze ngenze izivakashi zizizwe zisekhaya. Futhi ufuna izivakashi zakho zikwazi ukusebenzelana nabanye.
Ngihlale ngisho ukuthi njengomsingathi, ukuphumula nokuzijabulisa kubalulekile, ngoba izivakashi zizolandela ukuhola kwakho. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusasebenza.
Ngivame ukugodla amaminithi angu-45 ngalokhu, kodwa kunoma yikuphi, kuzophela ngokwemvelo. Ngokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, izihambeli zivame ukufunda emibonweni ephelayo.
Ngihlale ngithanda ukushiya isipho esincane endaweni yokudlela yawo wonke umuntu. Yilokhu engakufunda kugogo wami u-Estee Lauder. Ukuze uqhubeke naleli siko, kungase kube umqondo othakazelisayo ukuthumela isipho esincane kuzo zonke izivakashi, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi ukukhanyisa amakhandlela ngesikhathi somcimbi, izitsha zebha zokwenza iziphuzo kubo, noma ngisho ne-napkin ye-monogram. I-AERIN isanda kuhlanganyela neSocial Studies, ehlinzeka ngezidingo zokubeka wonke amatafula amahle emnyango wakho. Ngiyawuthanda umbono wokuthi sonke isivakashi samukela amapuleti afanayo, ama-napkins, izibuko, njll. ukuze senze okuhlangenwe nakho okuhlangene kakhulu.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, njengosokhaya, kufanele ukugcine kulula futhi kujabulisa. Ababungazi bavame ukulwela ukuphelela, okungelula ukuheha ukunaka kwabantu. Eminye yemisebenzi engcono kakhulu engike ngaya kuyo ingeyesikhashana futhi ihamba kalula. U-Estee Lauder wayehlale ethi: “Uma nje kuthatha isikhathi, yonke into izoba yinhle.” Lesi sisho sisawufanele umhlaba wanamuhla obonakalayo.
Njengomsunguli we-Virtual With Us, u-Alex Schrecengost uhlele uhlelo lwe-wine-centric ukuze ozakwabo bebhizinisi nabangane bajabulele ndawonye. Amakhasimende akhe asukela ezinkampanini ze-Fortune 500 kuya ezinhlanganweni ezinkulu ezingenzi nzuzo ezibamba amaphathi akusihlwa. Zonke izihambeli zakhe zizothola iwayini elisebhodleleni newayini elihambisanayo ngaphambi komcimbi, bese zingena ukuze zibe nengxoxo yakusihlwa emnandi futhi zibe nethuba lokufunda ngewayini eziliphuzayo. Nansi imikhuba ehamba phambili ye-Schrecengost.
Sisebenzisa i-Zoom. Isebenziseka kalula futhi inejika eliphansi lokufunda kulabo abangayijwayele. Okudingayo nje ikhompuyutha ephathekayo (noma iselula) kanye nomthombo wokukhanya omuhle ukuze ukwazi ukubona ubuso bonke obuhle.
Ungathumela uhlu lokuthenga ukuze uthole amawayini atholakala kalula, noma elingcono, sicela usisebenzise! Sakha uhlu lwawo wonke amawayini, ubhiya, isipirithi kanye neziphuzo (ikhofi/itiye) ngaphakathi. Ngisebenzisana eduze nabasabalalisi, abangenisa impahla ngaphandle kanye nozakwethu abadayisayo ezweni lonke ukuze ngithole imikhiqizo eyingqayizivele, futhi ngithanda ukukuthumela yona.
Sikhuthaza ukubiza ama-sommeliers. Sifuna izivakashi zethu zizizwe zikhululekile ngewayini futhi zifunde endaweni enokugabadela, eyomile noma enokwahlulela. Uma ubambe iphathi yewayini ekhaya futhi ungakwazi ukuthola izinsiza ze-sommelier, ungathatha indima ye-sommelier futhi ufunde umlando we-cocktail ethile oyiphuzayo, noma uhlanganyele ekuchazeni i-master sommelier yokunambitha iwayini. incazelo.
Amaqiniso afakazele ukuthi ihora elilodwa isikhathi esingcono kakhulu, nakuba uma wonke umuntu enesikhathi esikhethekile, uzohlala isikhathi eside, nakanjani siyakukhuthaza lokhu.
Into engcono kakhulu ngewayini ukuthi ihlanganisa kalula kanjani abantu. Kulula kakhulu ukubhanqa iwayini nengxoxo, ngakho-ke sikhuluma ngokudla nesiko le-pop ukuze senze wonke umuntu ashelele futhi ahehe. Ukwengeza, abantu bayazithanda izindaba ezimnandi nezindaba ezimayelana newayini abaliphuzayo, ngakho-ke babelane ngemininingwane ethile mayelana nendawo yokwenza iwayini noma umndeni ongumnikazi wendawo.
Njengokuya kunoma iyiphi iphathi, sicela ulinganise indlela wonke umuntu azizwa ngayo bese uzama ukwenza wonke umuntu avule ikhamera. Lokhu kushintsha isimo somhlangano wonkana futhi kusiza ekwenzeni wonke umuntu ahlanganyele. Hlela umhlangano ojabulisayo wokuphihliza iqhwa ukuze ugcwalise wonke umuntu ngendawo ejabulisayo, njengokuthi: yiziphi izinto zokuzilibazisa ezihlanya kakhulu abantu abazenzayo ngesikhathi se-COVID, noma iphrojekthi abaziqhenya ngayo, ngisho noma imatasa isebenza futhi iyafunda . Futhi, ukudlala! Uma ungabaza, sicela ukwenze kuthakazelise. Uma wonke umuntu ekwazi ukuhleka ndawonye, ​​khona-ke wonke umuntu uzoba nesikhathi esimnandi.
Ngokungafani namatafula ezindawo zokudlela, sinomzwelo ongokwemvelo wokwazi ukuthi iphela nini. Imayelana nokuzwa igumbi lakho elibonakalayo futhi ubone ukuthi abantu basaxoxa futhi bayaxhumana yini, noma uma bebukeka bekhathele.
Ungakwazi nakanjani ukuphakamisa ukuthi izivakashi zakho zibe noshokoledi noshizi esandleni bese uthatha kancane phakathi. Ingilazi yewayini efaniswe ngokuphelele ihlale imnandi kakhulu.
Njengomsunguli we-Club Club Global, uSolano uphatha imicimbi yamasonto onke endaweni yokusakaza bukhoma i-Twitch. Umbukiso wakhe ubukhombise amakhono ahlukahlukene, okuhlanganisa ukuphotha kuka-DJ, ukusebenza kwabaculi, ukufunda izimbongi, nobuciko bevidiyo. I-Club House Global yazalwa ebhubhaneni ukuze isekele indlela o-DJ namaciko abangakwazi ngayo ukusebenzelana nezithameli ngendlela evamile. I-Club House Global iklabhu eyamukela wonke umuntu. Imikhuba emihle kaSolano imi kanje:
ngokuphelele! Okujabulisayo kwakho konke lokhu ukuthi ukusakaza-bukhoma kungenziwa ngokukhululeka noma kupheleliswe ngendlela othanda ngayo, ngebanga elibanzi!
Ungasebenzisa izinkundla eziningi ukuze usakaze bukhoma. I-Twitch yinhle ngenxa yekhono layo lokuvumela ukusebenzisana kwesikhathi sangempela, idlale kahle uhlelo lwakho, futhi ikubonise umphakathi omkhulu osuvele ukhona ekusakazeni bukhoma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, okungavamile kakhulu kungcono! Umkhathi weTwitch ukhuthaza ukuziphatha okusondelene, okungajwayelekile. Lokhu kusisiza ukuthi sihehe izethameli futhi senze iqembu likhange kuzo.
Kuzinhlelo zokusebenza eziningi zokusakaza bukhoma, uzodinga i-WiFi enhle kanye nedivayisi enekhamera exhunyiwe. Abantu abaningi bacabanga ukuthi isinyathelo esilandelayo silula njengokucindezela inkinobho ethi “bukhoma”. Kodwa-ke, kuye ngesilinganiso sohlelo, kungase kube nzima nakakhulu. Uma ungu-DJ noma umsingathi, ngokuvamile udinga isixhumi esibonakalayo somsindo, njenge-GoMixer noma i-iRig. Futhi kungcono kakhulu ukufaka nokufunda i-OBS (I-Open Broadcast Software). Uma ufuna ukuthola ubuchwepheshe obusezingeni eliphezulu, njengoba sise-Club House Global, uzodinga iziguquli zobuchwepheshe ezifana nomsunguli engikanye naye u-Patrick Struys. Uma unengxoxo ebukhoma (kungaba ku-Twitch, IG Live, Facebook noma Youtube Live), ungase udinge umongameli ongaqinisekisa ukuthi i-convo ihlala isebenza futhi ifanelekile. Uzakwethu wesithathu kanye nomdidiyeli omkhulu u-Anjali Ramasunder e-CHG uyingcweti kule ndawo. Sonke sigqoka izigqoko eziningi, ngoba indawo yokusakaza bukhoma isentshonalanga yasendle, udinga zonke izandla zakho emphemeni.
Ungathola imikhuba eminingi efanayo ye-IRL lapho uhlela ukukhuthaza ukuhamba kolwazi lwakho. Dizayina amaflaya, thumela ulwazi ezinkundleni zokuxhumana, bese uthumela ulwazi ngezincwadi zezindaba, uchungechunge lombhalo, njll. Uma unquma ukuthi ufuna ukuthi ukusakazwa kwevidiyo kuqale nini, cabangela indawo yesikhathi yezethameli nokuthi kwenzeka nini okunye ukusakaza bukhoma. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukungeza isixhumanisi esiqondile ekusakazweni kwakho!
Izilinganiso zokusakaza bukhoma ziyashintshashintsha futhi azibikezeli. Lena into okumele uyijwayele. Akusebenzi njengomcimbi we-IRL. Abantu bazovela ngokuzumayo bese bebuyela ekusakazweni kwakho. Ezinye izinqubo zithatha amahora amabili, ezinye zithatha amahora angama-24. Kuncike kumkhawulokudonsa wakho nezinjongo zokusakaza. Ngokwesibonelo, ingabe ufuna ukukhulisa imali? Noma ukuzihlalela nje nabangani? Ingabe ninabo o-DJ/abaculi abayi-10 abalungiselela ukucula eyodwa njalo ngehora, noma nibabili? Kwesinye isikhathi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokunquma ukuthi ikufanele yini ukukuhlola!
Uma usunabalaleli, kungaba segumbini lakho lomhlangano le-Zoom noma endaweni yesikhulumi somphakathi, ufuna ukwamukela wonke umuntu. Yazisa izilaleli ukuthi zilungisani, futhi uzinikeze ibalazwe lohlelo. Khumbula, abantu bazovela ngezikhathi ezahlukene, futhi kuhle ukukuvuma.
Uma othile ekumbhobho, izethameli ezibukhoma zisabela kakhulu. Ikakhulukazi uma ukhuluma ngqo nengxoxo, uphendula imibuzo, ubeke amazwana ngomculo odlalwayo, njll. Kucabange njengephodikasti ebukhoma. Usokhaya omuhle uzokwenza uzizwe sengathi ningabantu ababili nje ekamelweni. Abalaleli bazothuliswa, ngakho ukusebenzelana okuningi kuzoba sengxoxweni. Vuleleka kumazwana futhi uzibe noma yimaphi ama-troll.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokuqinisekisa ukuthi izethameli zakho zijabule ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ujabule. Amandla ayathelelana, futhi manje usungumphathi we-resonance. Ngeke ukwazi ukubona izethameli zakho, ngakho ungahlala ubuza ukuthi ingxoxo iyathandeka yini. Uma izethameli sezixhumene nawe ngempela, zizophenduka abalandeli. Ngakho hlala uthintana nawe!
Ngokuvamile, ngaphambi kokusakaza, kufanele ube neshejuli enzima yesikhathi sokusakaza bukhoma. Ikakhulukazi uma ufuna ukukhuthaza uhlelo kusengaphambili. Ngaphezu kwalokho, uma uhlela ukusakaza imidiya ngokuqhubekayo ukuze wakhe izethameli eziku-inthanethi, ufuna ukusakaza imidiya ngesikhathi esisodwa nangehora kanye ngesonto.
ngokuphelele! Uhlale ufuna ukubonga izethameli ngokuba khona, ikakhulukazi uma ufuna zibuye ngokusakaza bukhoma okulandelayo. Futhi, sebenzisa umkhuba ofanayo we-IRL kulokhu-kuthumela imilayezo yokubonga ngezinkundla zokuxhumana, izincwadi zezindaba noma umbhalo. Biza abantu abathile abathembekile ekugelezeni kolwazi lwakho futhi uthuthukise umphakathi wakho wedijithali.
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