Uma i-Grinch intshontsha uKhisimusi, lo bhubhane usivimbela ukuba sigujwa ngokuphelele amaholide obusika. Kuyavela ukuthi lesi ngesinye isikhathi sokulinda. Ngokwezincomo zakamuva zikahulumeni, ukuhamba kwamaholide kudangala, kanti imibuthano yedijithali ibonakala iyindlela eqondakalayo kunazo zonke yokuxhumana nabangane nomndeni.
Uma ufuna ukusingatha ukusebenza kwakho kokusakaza, sicela ukhumbule okuthile okufanele unake. Futhi njengoba izincwadi zokuthumela ze-Emily zingenawo imicimbi ebonakalayo, saxhumana nabavakashi abane futhi sazinikeza imikhuba emihle yamaqembu e-digital cocktail, amaseshini kajamu kanye nokunambitheka kwewayini. I-Chin, phansi phezulu, bese uqhubeka nokufunda.
Njengomklami womcimbi, uyaziwa ngokuthi "ukuphindela kabili indlela". Isikhathi eside, uGardner unikeze izinsiza kuma-Persupy Hostes afuna ukudala ubusuku obungalibaleki. Ifilosofi yakhe ifaka amaphethini ngamaphethini, izimbali ezingapheli nokudlala. Lokhu kuwa, wavula indlu yakhe kanye ne-Party Online Store, lapho ungathola khona zonke izinto zakhe azithandayo - imigqa yesiPutukezi, i-Murano Glaslare namagajethi wesigqoko samaphepha wokwenza okungeziwe. Nazi izindlela ezinhle zikaGardner.
Ngicabanga ukuthi kuhle ukuthi ukuqoqa abantu emhlabeni wonke kucabanga ngezindlela zokuqhubeka nesiko lamaholide. Kodwa-ke, ngesaba isimemo sokubamba iqhaza emicimbini ebonakalayo. Kunobunzima bobuchwepheshe, bese uhleli phambi kwesikrini sekhompyutha ukuze udle futhi uzizwe esaba. Ngincoma ukugcina le mibuthano ebonakalayo imfushane futhi imnandi, kepha iyakhumbuleka ngokulinganayo. Kungani ungajoyina abangane nomndeni nge-toast toast yangaphambi kwesidlo sakusihlwa kanye nesikhathi sokulala?
Hlela imenyu ekhethekile, ukhuthaze ukupheka kweqembu, bese uhlela izingcingo ezimbili zokusondeza ngesikhathi esibekiwe ngaphambi nangemva kokudla kwakusihlwa. Zihlele cishe imizuzu engama-30 ngaphambi kokudla kwakusihlwa futhi kusihlwa kusihlwa ukuze ungaphazamisi ukudla kwakho.
Okuthunyelwe okungenamaphepha kunesigaba sonke samaqembu abonakalayo. Ungafaka isixhumanisi esithi "ZOOM" embhalweni. Ngithanda izinketho emfanekisweni ojabulisayo we-merocal (wabuye wenza amakhadi amahle emenyu amakhadi esitolo sami).
Besilokhu sibuka esikhaleni esifanayo izinyanga kanye namatafula okuhlobisa kuyindlela enhle yokwenza imvelo yemikhosi. Oda izimbali! Ufiphele amalambu! swenka! Hambisa isibani! Akunandaba ukuthi lincane kangakanani iqembu, ungavumeli noma yini umonakalise ukuhlelwa kwetafula lakho. Ungakhombisa imihlobiso yakho ngesikhathi socingo lokusondeza, kepha sicela ungasebenzisi i- "Photogenic Background" ngaphandle kokuthi imbi kakhulu futhi i-hysterical kakhulu.
Ngingumfundi wePriya Parker (wabhala "ubuciko bokubuthana: Sihlangana kanjani nokuthi kungani kubalulekile"). Umgcini kumele aqaphele ngaso sonke isikhathi umcimbi, kungakhathalekile leyo fomethi. Le yindlela yokwenza umsebenzi ube nenjongo.
Kulonyaka, ukhiye ukuhlela kusengaphambili nokwenza imizamo, ngoba ukusondeza izingcingo zisetshenziselwa imihlangano yebhizinisi. Gqoka isigqoko sasendle, izinkondlo ezithandekayo zothando, noma vumela izingane zicule izingoma ezihlekisayo. Noma yikuphi ukwengeza ama-pancake. Kuthunyelwa imaski yephathi yama-silly kanye nezigqoko, noma la makhukhi eqembu, anobucwebe bezembatho kubo, kanye nomdlalo wegumbi lokuphila okumnandi okufana nokuthi "wenze sengathi uncibilikisa i-snowman", kumnandi impela. Vele, izihlobo zakho zingenza lokhu ngenjabulo.
Ukuya isidlo sakusihlwa se-Aeron Lauder ukufunda ubuciko be-etiquette. Umqambi owazuza umbono kagogo wakhe wokwakha kanye nesitayela senhlalo wabelana ngokuhlakanipha kwakhe encwadini entsha ethi "Rizzoli". Uthe ukuzijabulisa kufanele kube lula futhi kube mnandi, noma ngabe kuyikhofi kubantu ababili abalele embhedeni noma ukujabulisa amalungu omndeni asondelene nesidlo sakusihlwa. Imikhuba emihle kaLauder ima kamnandi.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokubamba umcimbi obonakalayo ukugcina ubumfihlo nobumfihlo. Uma sifunda noma yini ngalesi sikhathi, ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kuwukubaluleka kokunakwa kwemininingwane. Ngithanda ukuba netiye ntambama nantana nabangane nomndeni. Le yindlela enhle yokuqeda usuku.
Ngeke ngikwazi ukuqamba amanga, namanje angisona umuntu ongcono kakhulu ukusebenzisa ukusondeza, amadodana ami anga kuzofanela angisize ukuhlela lo mcimbi. Kepha manje kuzwakala njengendawo enhle yokuxhumana, ukuhlangana futhi udale izinkumbulo ezintsha.
Ngetiye ntambama, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usethe konke ongakudinga-itiye elibekiwe, ushukela nobisi. Bengilokhu ngisebenzisa i-ginori 1735 grandca 1735 graduca tea Series muva nje. Ngihlala ngine-vase encane egcwele izimbali nesitsha esigcwele ushokoledi oxutshwe noshokoledi. Bengilokhu ngisebenzisa i-lattea vase yethu entsha kuyo yonke inqubo yokuhlukaniswa ngoba yenziwe ngengilazi futhi ibukeka yinhle kunoma iyiphi imvelo. Ngemuva kwalokho, ngiphakamisa ukuthi ubilise amanzi ngaphambi kokuba umsebenzi uqale ukuze ukwazi ukujabulela ngokugcwele isikhathi nezivakashi zakho. Ungaxhumana nabo ngaphambi kwesikhathi, ngakho-ke akekho osekhishini ngesikhathi socingo.
Ngineminyaka emidala kakhulu futhi ngihlale ngifana nezimemo kuma-imeyili, kepha imicimbi ebonakalayo, izimemo zedijithali zibonakala zilungele kakhulu. Ngithanda ukudala izimemo zedijithali ngokwezifiso ukwenza abantu bajabule ngomcimbi. Ngithanda ukusebenza nabadwebi be-watercolor njenge-menocal ejabule, i-kinishippress kanye nama-clementina skenenchbooks ukwenza izivakashi zizizwe i-handicraft futhi ekhethekile.
Ngisasetshenziselwa ukwenza izinto ezibonakalayo futhi ngifunda imikhuba emihle kakhulu, kodwa ngicabanga ukuthi ukuba nesizinda esifudumele nezithandekayo kuyithonya kakhulu. Noma nini lapho nginezivakashi ekhaya, ngifuna bazizwe bekhululekile futhi bajabulele. Ngakho-ke, ngihlose ukudala indawo ebonakalayo evumelana nalo mqondo. Lapho ubambe iqembu letiye, ngiphakamisa ukuthi usondeze kusuka egumbini lokuhlala noma ekhishini. Beka i-laptop etafuleni eliseceleni, ungabeka netiye lisetha kukho.
Akunandaba noma kwenzekani, ukugcina isikhathi kuhlale kukhuthaziwe. Kuningi esingakwenza ekhaya, ngakho-ke ngiyabonga nganoma yisiphi isikhathi ongaya kuwo.
Noma nini lapho ngijabulisa, izingxoxo ezithokozisayo nezijabulisayo zibalulekile ukuchitha ubusuku obumnandi, ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuvumela wonke umuntu akhulume. Lesi ngesinye sezizathu zokuthi kungani ngizizwa nginamandla ngokubamba imicimbi emincane futhi esondele. Ngicabanga ukuthi kubaluleke kakhulu ukusungula ukuxhumana ngqo nabavakashi bakho futhi kubenze bazizwe behlukile. Ngihlale ngithanda ukuletha izindaba zomuntu siqu kanye nezinkumbulo emisebenzini yami ukwenza izivakashi zizizwe ekhaya. Ufuna futhi izivakashi zakho zikwazi ukuxhumana nabanye.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi ngithi njengomgcini, ukuphumula kanye nokuzijabulisa kubalulekile, ngoba izivakashi zizolandela ukuhola kwakho. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokhu kusebenza.
Ngivame ukugcina imizuzu engama-45 ngalokhu, kepha kunoma yikuphi, kuzophela ngokwemvelo. Kokuhlangenwe nakho kwami, izivakashi zivame ukufunda emikhondweni efiphele.
Ngihlala ngithanda ukushiya isipho esincane endaweni yokudlela yawo wonke umuntu. Yilokhu engikufunde kugogo wami u-Estee Lauder. Ukuqhubeka nalesi siko, kungaba ngumqondo othokozisayo ukuthumela isipho esincane kubo bonke abavakashi, noma ngabe kukhanyisa amakhandlela ngesikhathi somcimbi, izitsha zebha zokwenza iziphuzo, noma ne-monogram napkin. I-Aerin isanda kuhlangana nezifundo zenhlalo, enikeza izidingo zokubeka wonke amatafula amahle emnyango wakho. Ngiwuthanda umbono wokuthi zonke izivakashi zamukela amapuleti afanayo, ama-napkin, izibuko, njll. Ukwakha isipiliyoni esihlangene kakhulu.
Okubaluleke kakhulu, njengomgcini, kufanele uwugcine ulula futhi ujabulise. Ama-hosts avame ukulwela ukuphelela, okungekho lula ukuheha ukunakwa kwabantu. Eminye yemisebenzi engcono kakhulu ebengiye yaba yinto ehlelekile futhi elula. U-Estele Lauder uhlala ethi: "Uma nje kuthatha isikhathi, konke kuzoba kuhle." Lesi silinganiso sisalungele umhlaba wanamuhla obonakalayo.
Njengomsunguli we-Virtual nathi, uhlelo lwe-Alex Schrecengost oluhlelekile lwe-Wine-Centric Programming for osebenza nabo ebhizinisini nabangane ukujabulela ndawonye. Amakhasimende akhe asukela ezinkampanini ze-Fortune 500 ezinhlanganweni ezinkulu ezingenzi nzuzo zibamba amaqembu wakusihlwa. Zonke izivakashi zakhe zizothola iwayini elinamabhodlela futhi lihambisane newayini ngaphambi komcimbi, bese lingena kulo kusihlwa esimnandi sengxoxo futhi lithole ithuba lokufunda ngewayini eliliphuzayo. Nazi izindlela ezinhle kakhulu ze-Schreecengost.
Sisebenzisa ukusondeza. Kuyasebenziseka kakhulu futhi kunejika lokufunda eliphansi kulabo abangajwayele. Konke okudingayo ilaptop (noma ifoni ephathekayo) nomthombo omuhle wokukhanya ukuze ubone ubuso obuhle bonke abantu.
Ungathumela uhlu lokuthenga ukuthola amawayini okulula ukuthola, noma okungcono, sicela usisebenzise! Sakha uhlu lwazo zonke amawayini, ubhiya, imimoya neziphuzo (ikofi / itiye) ngaphakathi. Ngisebenza ngokubambisana nabasabalalisi, abangenisi kanye nabalingani bezitolo ezweni lonke ukuthola imikhiqizo eyingqayizivele, futhi ngithanda ukuzithumela kuwe.
Sigqugquzela ukubiza abakwaSommeliers. Sifuna izivakashi zethu zizizwe zikhululekile ngewayini futhi zifunde endaweni ebonakalayo, eyomile noma yokwahlulela. Uma ubamba iphathi yewayini ekhaya futhi awukwazi ukuthola izinsizakalo ze-sommelier, ungathatha indima ye-sommelier futhi ufunde umlando we-cocktail ethile oyiphuzayo, noma ubambe iqhaza ekuhunyushweni kwe-master sommelier kokunambitha iwayini. Incazelo.
Amaqiniso abonakalise ukuthi ihora elilodwa isikhathi esihle kakhulu, yize wonke umuntu enesikhathi esikhethekile, azohlala isikhathi eside, nakanjani sikukhuthaza lokhu.
Into enhle ngewayini ukuthi ihlanganisa kalula abantu. Kulula kakhulu ukubhanqa iwayini ngengxoxo, ngakho-ke sikhuluma ngesiko lokudla ne-pop ukwenza wonke umuntu abusheleleke futhi athakazelise ngokwengeziwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abantu bathanda izindaba ezinhle nezindaba eziphathelene newayini abaziphuzayo, ngakho babelana ngokuqonda okuthile nge-winery noma umndeni ongumnikazi we-winery.
Njengokuthi ukuya kunoma yiliphi iqembu, sicela ulinganise isimo sawo wonke umuntu bese uzama ukwenza wonke umuntu avule ikhamera. Lokhu kushintsha umoya womhlangano wonke futhi usiza ukwenza wonke umuntu ahlanganyele. Hlela umhlangano ogqamile weqhwa ukuze ugcwalise wonke umuntu onesimo esijabulisayo, njengokuthi: Yiziphi izinto zokuzilibazisa ezihlanzekile kunabo bonke abantu abazidlayo ngesikhathi sendawo, noma iphrojekthi bayaziqhenya kakhulu, noma ngabe imatasatasa iyasebenza futhi iyakufunda. Futhi, Kidding! Lapho ungabaza, sicela uyenze kuthakazelise. Uma wonke umuntu angahleka ndawonye, ​​khona-ke wonke umuntu uzoba nesikhathi esihle.
Ngokungafani namatafula okudlela, sinomqondo wokwazi ukuthi siyaphela nini. Kumayelana nokuzwa igumbi lakho elibonakalayo nokubona ukuthi ngabe abantu besaxoxa futhi bexhumana, noma uma bebukeka bekhathele.
Ngokuqinisekile ungaphakamisa ukuthi izivakashi zakho zibe noshokoledi noshizi ngesandla bese ziluma phakathi. Ingilazi efaniswe kahle yewayini ihlala imnandi kakhulu.
Njengomsunguli weClub Club Global, Selano ibamba imicimbi masonto onke ethafeni lokusakaza bukhoma. Umbukiso wakhe wakhombisa amathalente ahlukahlukene, kufaka phakathi i-DJ Spinning, ukusebenza komculi, ukufundwa kwembongi, nobuciko bevidiyo. I-Club House Global yazalelwa obhubhane ukusekela indlela ama-DJs nabadwebi abangakwazi ukuxhumana nezithameli ngendlela yendabuko. I-Club House Global yiklabhu eyamukela wonke umuntu. Imikhuba emihle kaSolano imi ngalendlela elandelayo:
ngokuphelele! Ubumnandi bakho konke lokhu ukuthi ukusakazwa kungaba ngokukhululeka noma ukuphelela ngendlela othanda ngayo, nobubanzi obubanzi!
Ungasebenzisa amapulatifomu amaningi wokusakazwa bukhoma. I-Twitch ihle ngenxa yekhono layo lokuvumela ukusebenzisana kwesikhathi sangempela, sikhumbule uhlelo lwakho, futhi sikukhombise umphakathi omkhulu osuvele ukhona ekusakazweni okubukhoma. Ngaphezu kwalokho, okujwayelekile okungcono kakhulu! Umkhathi we-Sttutch ugqugquzela ukusebenza okusondele, okungachazeki. Lokhu kusisiza ukuheha izithameli futhi zenze iqembu likhange.
Kwizicelo eziningi zokusakazwa bukhoma, uzodinga i-WiFi enhle nedivayisi enekhamera exhunyiwe. Iningi labantu licabanga ukuthi isinyathelo esilandelayo silula njengokucindezela inkinobho ethi "Live". Kodwa-ke, ngokuya ngesilinganiso sohlelo, kungaba yinkimbinkimbi ngokwengeziwe. Uma uyi-DJ noma umgcini, uvame ukudinga isikhombimsebenzisi somsindo, njenge-gomixer noma i-irig. Futhi kungcono ukufaka futhi ufunde i-OBS (Software evulekile yokusakaza). Uma ufuna ukuthola ubuchwepheshe be-super, njengoba siseClub House Global, uzodinga abaguquli bezobuchwepheshe njenge-patrick struys yami. Uma unengxoxo ebukhoma (kungaba ngeTwitch, iG Live, Facebook noma i-YouTube Live), ungadinga omengameli ongaqinisekisa ukuthi i-convo ihlala isebenza futhi ifanelekile. Umlingani wami wesithathu kanye nomkhiqizi oPhethe Anjali Ramasunder ku-CHG yingcweti kule ndawo. Sonke sigqoka izigqoko eziningi, ngoba isikhala sokusakaza bukhoma sisentshonalanga yasendle, udinga zonke izandla zakho emphemeni.
Ungamukela imikhuba eminingi efanayo ye-IRL lapho uhlela ukukhuthaza ukugeleza kolwazi lwakho. Design Flyers, imininingwane yeposi kwabezindaba zenhlalo, bese uthumela imininingwane nge-Newsletters, imicu yombhalo, njll lapho inquma lapho ufuna ukusakaza kwevidiyo ukuqala, cabanga ngendawo yezemilameli futhi lapho kuvela imifudlana yezemilameli. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukwengeza isixhumanisi esiqondile ekusakazweni kwakho!
Izilinganiso zokusakaza bukhoma ziyashintshashintsha futhi azilindelekile. Le yinto okufanele uyijwayele. Akusebenzi njengomcimbi we-IRL. Abantu bazovela ngokuzumayo bese bebuyela emfudlaneni wakho. Ezinye izinqubo zigcina amahora amabili, amanye amahora angama-24 edlule. Kuya nge-bandwidth yakho kanye nezinhloso zokusakaza. Isibonelo, ingabe ufuna ukukhulisa imali? Noma vele ulengise nabangane? Ingabe unayo i-10 DJS / abaculi abalungiselela ukwenza eyodwa ihora ngalinye, noma ungowabili? Kwesinye isikhathi, indlela engcono kakhulu yokuthola ukuthi kufanelekile ukuthi ulihlole!
Uma usunezithameli, kungaba egumbini lakho lokuhlangana lokusondeza noma epulatifomu yomphakathi, nifuna ukwamukela wonke umuntu. Vumela izilaleli zazi ukuthi zizokulungisa ini, futhi zibanikeze imephu yohlelo. Khumbula, abantu bazovela ngezikhathi ezihlukile, futhi kungcono ukuvuma.
Lapho othile esemakrofoni, izilaleli ezibukhoma ziphendula kakhulu. Ikakhulu uma ukhuluma ngqo nengxoxo, phendula imibuzo, ubeke amazwana ngomculo odlalwa, njll. Cabanga ngakho njenge-podcast ebukhoma. Umgcini omuhle uzokwenza uzizwe sengathi ungabantu nje ababili egumbini. Izilaleli zizothuliswa, ngakho-ke iningi lokusebenzisana lizoba sengxoxweni. Vula amazwana futhi unganaki noma yimuphi ama-troll.
Indlela engcono kakhulu yokwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi izilaleli zakho zimnandi ukwenza isiqiniseko sokuthi ujabule. Amandla ayathathelana, futhi manje uyi-Commander of Resonance. Ngeke ukwazi ukubona izilaleli zakho, ngakho-ke ungahlala ubuza ukuthi ingxoxo iyathakazelisa yini. Lapho izilaleli empeleni zixhuma kanye nawe, zizophenduka abalandeli. Ngakho-ke hlala uthintana nawe!
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